In one day each of us has any way to stop and talk with people known and unknown. We communicate in many ways and often the words are not the preferred way through which pass the information. For example, during a work meeting, an executive asked a foreman if he has problems in dealing with his colleagues. "Absolutely not," replied the captain, but unintentionally nods his head. The officer frowns, worried. This occurs because when you do not know whether to believe what you hear or what you see, body language will prevail, as a privileged vehicle for "truth." A mother discovers 
that the three year old daughter has dirtied the entire kitchen with flour. "You do not have to play this way," he says, but he can not hide a smile. The next day, without any hesitation, the girl goes to re-open the same drawer: for her, the smile on the face of the mother was still a license to play that way. are the children better than adults to be able to distinguish between what one says and what it really means. Every day, hundreds of situations, the gestures are to speak louder than words . In this regard, the psychologist Paul Ekman writes that " talk to the vocal cords, but we communicate with facial expression, with tone of voice, his whole body. " As children this ability is very obvious, with the growth has ceased and we tend to rely on verbal aspects . Children capture the first non-verbal messages: they are smaller, and more importantly non-verbal communication, because they have that one.
that the three year old daughter has dirtied the entire kitchen with flour. "You do not have to play this way," he says, but he can not hide a smile. The next day, without any hesitation, the girl goes to re-open the same drawer: for her, the smile on the face of the mother was still a license to play that way. are the children better than adults to be able to distinguish between what one says and what it really means. Every day, hundreds of situations, the gestures are to speak louder than words . In this regard, the psychologist Paul Ekman writes that " talk to the vocal cords, but we communicate with facial expression, with tone of voice, his whole body. " As children this ability is very obvious, with the growth has ceased and we tend to rely on verbal aspects . Children capture the first non-verbal messages: they are smaller, and more importantly non-verbal communication, because they have that one. Smiling just to mask cioò you really think?
If your boss smiles while exposing an idea, it is premature to think diavia convinced. Ekman believes that the smiles are much more complicated than you might imagine
, "and has classified 18 different types, almost all false . One of the most common in the workplace is what the upper spessousano to reject an idea or to criticize an employee.
, "and has classified 18 different types, almost all false . One of the most common in the workplace is what the upper spessousano to reject an idea or to criticize an employee.
In this smile the corners of the mouth are usually stationary and the upper lip a bit 'relieved. 
So on what you tell if a smile is genuine ?
must look at the top of a person's face. The genuine smiles involve the muscles that are squinting into an expression of pleasure.
Who are the best "interpreters" of non-verbal language?
Babies react to body language: a child feels tension from the way his mother holds him in her arms and began to cry.
If the mother is quiet, even the little calm down.
Parents can learn through careful observation to understand the nonverbal messages of the children when they are angry, vent as the tension and how they react to stress.
To learn how to use body language and communicate more effectively used to tune into the personal way in which we talk about during the day, he gestures and moves. There are those who roll up their hair with his fingers and who plays with his pen. If you learn to control these habits, you can not communicate their feelings with words.
Babies react to body language: a child feels tension from the way his mother holds him in her arms and began to cry.
If the mother is quiet, even the little calm down.
Parents can learn through careful observation to understand the nonverbal messages of the children when they are angry, vent as the tension and how they react to stress.
To learn how to use body language and communicate more effectively used to tune into the personal way in which we talk about during the day, he gestures and moves. There are those who roll up their hair with his fingers and who plays with his pen. If you learn to control these habits, you can not communicate their feelings with words.
to practice in personal study of non-verbal language may be to focus on received handshakes and dates. Close inspire more confidence that is firm and dry, it exerts a strong but not excessive pressure for as long lasting contact.
Another important element is to dwell on the vision: there are people who look the other straight in the eye and others who can not bear the look, if you do not feel uncomfortable.
encounter with another person is also important to note the position and movements of the body. Sometimes it takes a position in refusing dialogue (arms folded and legs crossed), we look forward to (the foot that beat rhythmically) or more.
understanding of body language is one of the most useful things you can learn. If you know "read" what others communicate unknowingly, may discuss issues before they become problems.
addition, non-verbal messages arising from the real needs and attitudes of the person. To be comfortable in all situations and get along well should be given due weight and expression to the intimacy and feelings, without force and disclaimers.
When you feel good about yourself, you see.
When you feel good about yourself, you see.
People who "know" are those that speak and move with more tones and gestures, relaxed, and they live across the spectrum of human feelings.
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